[Weekly Compilation of Presidential Documents Volume 32, Number 7 (Monday, February 19, 1996)]
[Pages 240-242]
[Online from the Government Publishing Office, www.gpo.gov]

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The President's Radio Address

February 10, 1996

    Good morning. Today I want to talk with you about our families and 
our future--a future of great possibilities and strong challenges, 
challenges we cannot meet with Government alone, but we can't meet them 
by letting people fend for themselves, either. We have to go forward 
together.
    In my State of the Union Address, I outlined our seven biggest 
challenges for the future, challenges we must meet if we are going

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to make the American dream available to all our people and unite our 
country around our shared values.
    Those seven are: strengthening our families and giving our children 
better childhoods; providing better education for all Americans; 
enhancing the security of working families through access to health 
care, lifetime education and training and secure pensions; fighting 
crime and gangs and drugs until crime is the exception, not the rule, in 
America again; protecting our environment; maintaining our world 
leadership for peace and freedom; and continuing to reform and reinvent 
our Government so that it does a better job at less cost in helping our 
people to make the most of their own lives, and solve our problems 
together.
    Our first, and in many ways our most important, challenge is to 
strengthen our families and improve childhood for all of our children. 
Our children are shaped by many forces, first and foremost by their 
parents, but also by other relatives, schools, places of worship, their 
peers, their communities, and the larger economic and social forces of 
our time.
    If the first years of a child's life go right, with engaged, caring 
parents to love and encourage them, to teach them right from wrong, it 
can mean the difference between a lifetime of fulfillment and a lifetime 
of frustration and disappointment. It can also mean the difference 
between an America prepared to meet the challenges of the 21st century 
and an America that is not.
    These days, most parents are working harder just to make ends meet; 
so it's an even greater challenge to spend the time, the energy, the 
concentration necessary to get children off to a good start. And it's a 
tougher job because our children are subject to so many outside forces 
that can undermine their growing up.
    Sadly, too many of our children are growing up without parents; 
others are abused or neglected by their parents; others have parents who 
simply don't know how to be strong, positive forces, the kind of forces 
every child needs in his or her life. Too often, these parents become 
shadows on the outskirts of their children's lives.
    We know that when parents are absent or abusive the results can be 
tragic. Recently in Chicago a 5-year-old boy was held 14 stories above 
the pavement by a 10-year-old and an 11-year-old, and dropped to his 
death. The boys who did the killing were essentially parentless, with 
both fathers in prison. In New York, a 6-year-old girl was beaten and 
tortured to death by her own mother.
    We know neglect can be bad, too, and not just in physical ways. Just 
this week, another national study confirmed the destructive impact on 
children of being permitted to watch excessive violence on television 
for hours and hours a day, year after year after year. Beyond that, we 
all know of the threats to our children outside the family. We must do a 
better job of dealing with these challenges.
    The sad fact is that while the overall crime rate is going down, 
crime among juveniles is still going up. While the overall drug use rate 
is going down, drug use among our children is still going up. When we 
lose these children, we suffer terrible individual losses and more; we 
lose a piece of our shared future.
    I know today's parents face tough challenges. This information and 
technology revolution in the new global economy we're experiencing is 
transforming the world to a degree seldom seen in history. Many of these 
changes are good, but let's face it, many of them put extra tremendous 
stress on America's parents, financial and otherwise.
    That's why we've worked hard to help parents in building strong 
families and bright futures for their children with things like the 
Family and Medical Leave Act so parents won't have to sacrifice their 
jobs when there's a baby born or family emergencies, with investments in 
Head Start and immunization so our children get off to a healthy start, 
with the earned-income tax credit, which this year will cut taxes for 
working families with incomes of less than $27,000 so that no families 
with full-time workers and children will be in poverty, with record 
amounts of child support collected, and with successful new efforts to 
make our streets and schools safer--100,000 more police, things like the 
Brady law, which has now kept 40,000 criminals from getting handguns.

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    Just this week I signed the Telecommunications Act of 1996 which 
gives the parents the V-chip so they can take greater responsibility for 
their children's lives and help them to kick the degrading influence of 
excessive television violence and other inappropriate programming out of 
their house.
    Now we're working hard to pass bipartisan legislation to prevent 
insurance companies from dropping people when they switch jobs or when 
their family members or they have preexisting health conditions. A sick 
child is enough weight on your shoulders without threatening the 
family's insurance. We're trying to pass welfare reform which supports 
both work and childrearing, and we ought to raise the minimum wage. No 
parent can raise a child on $4.25 a hour, though millions are trying to 
do just that.
    Government will continue to do its part. But governments don't raise 
children; parents do, and no program can ever replace parents teaching 
their children right from wrong and helping them to grow into strong, 
self-confident citizens. We can give you the V-chip, but you have to use 
it. We can make dads send checks to support their children, but a check 
is no substitute for a parent's love and guidance.
    We can continue to improve our schools, but what happens in the 
classroom depends in part on what happens at home, before and after 
school. We can pass laws to help families, but families must help 
themselves with parents respecting each other, keeping violence out of 
the home, challenging each other to work harder to stay together. 
Divorce may be easier than staying together for parents, but usually 
it's tougher for the kids.
    So to every parent I say: Turn off the TV more. Get to know your 
child's teacher. Spend time together. Read and learn together. Above 
all, teach your child right from wrong. If parents do their job and the 
rest of us, including Government, do our part, America's future will be 
assured because we work together.
    The Bible asks: ``If your child asks for bread, would you give him a 
stone? If he asks for fish, would you give him a serpent? If he asks for 
an egg, would you give him a scorpion?'' Our children are what we give 
them, what we teach them. We dare not forget that basic truth. Their 
lives and our common future depend upon it.
    Thanks for listening.

Note: The address was recorded at approximately 8:15 a.m. on February 10 
in the Oval Office for broadcast at 10:06 a.m.