[Public Papers of the Presidents of the United States: William J. Clinton (1996, Book I)]
[February 21, 1996]
[Pages 307-309]
[From the U.S. Government Publishing Office www.gpo.gov]



Remarks on the Unveiling of the Domestic Violence Hotline and an 
Exchange With Reporters
February 21, 1996

    The President. Thank you, Candice. Thank you, Secretary Shalala. 
Thank you, Senator Kennedy, Senator Leahy, Representative Conyers. I 
want to thank Bonnie Campbell for doing such a great job as the Director 
of the Violence Against Women Office at the Justice Department. And I 
thank the Attorney General and Associate Attorney General John Schmidt 
and the others at Justice who have supported this endeavor for the first 
time. I want to thank you, Ellen Fisher, and your entire team for your 
hard work and your leadership. We are counting on you.
    I want to thank all the brave women in this audience who have 
survived the horrors and the fears of domestic violence and who have 
gone on to work, like Candice, as advocates. And I want to thank the men 
and the women who are here today, some in law enforcement, some in other 
walks of life, who are here because they believe in this effort and they 
want to support it.
    I was just sitting here thinking how many of you had the same 
reaction to Candice that I did. She sort of stepped up here and started 
talking; it sounded like another ordinary speech--I've done thousands of 
these now in the last 22 years--and it was almost hypnotic, just a calm, 
even-voice narrative that seemed almost unbelievable except for those of 
you who have lived through it so often.
    When I gave the State of the Union Address and asked the American 
people to look beyond the present battle over the budget to the real 
challenges facing our country, not just our Government but our country, 
I pointed out that our first and foremost challenge now and perhaps 
forever will be to have good, strong families and to give childhood back 
to all the children in this country. Most of us have known the joys of--
some of the joys of family life. And anybody who's been in a family 
knows that none of them are perfect. But there's a world of difference 
between a family with its joys and its problems and a family terrorized 
by violence and abuse.
    For all the economic problems facing poor children in America, I 
would rather them be poor in homes with loving parents than have their 
childhoods robbed by violence in their homes. So I say again to all of 
you, this is not a women's issue; this is an issue for families and for 
children and for men as well. And it is an American challenge that we 
have to face.
    This issue has been swept under the rug for too long. We have tried 
to take it out into the

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daylight, to let people talk about it, to give people a chance to find 
courage in the efforts of others and to know where they can find help. 
That's what the Violence Against Women Act in the 1994 crime bill was 
all about. And again, I thank Bonnie Campbell and all those at Justice 
who have supported those endeavors.
    It's also what our efforts in the crime bill to train people locally 
to be more sensitive to this are all about. We're making progress now. 
We're actually getting a core group of police officers and prosecutors 
and judges who really understand this problem and how it should be dealt 
with. This past September, Federal prosecutors used the Violence Against 
Women Act to help ensure that a man convicted of severe violence against 
his wife was actually sentenced to life in prison. So I think that we 
need to continue this effort.
    The second thing we need to do is to make sure that women who are 
struggling to take control of their own lives know how to do it. And for 
all the reasons that Secretary Shalala said, this number--this hotline 
will make a difference to women everywhere, whether they're isolated in 
rural areas, whether they're in big cities without enough money for a 
quarter for a telephone call; everywhere that people can see this number 
they will be able to use it.
    So I guess what I'd like to do now is to wrap up my remarks and say 
that we're really, all of us, here for people who aren't here. And my 
greatest hope about this press conference is that people out there 
across America will see it tonight or hear about it, and if they are 
victims of domestic abuse or if they suspect that someone they know and 
care about is a victim of domestic abuse, they will pick up the phone 
and call this number: 1-800-799-CARE.
    Secretary Donna Shalala. SAFE.
    The President. SAFE, I mean. [Laughter] I can't read. Maybe it will 
get overused and we'll have to have two. [Laughter]
    If this hotline--if one person does this and it saves their lives, 
if one person winds up safe, it will have been worth the effort. But all 
of you in this room know that it's not one person, that there are 
thousands and thousands and thousands of people out there.
    I'm going to be very interested to see what the report is after 1 
month and 2 months and 3 months. And I'm going to ask to get a report: 
how many calls, how many people out there, feeling alone and lonely and 
bereft and abandoned will dial that; how many people will commit to 
memory 799-SAFE and dial it, because I believe that all of us, even 
those of you who are advocates, may well be surprised by the sheer 
numbers, the volume of calls.
    So I ask you as you leave today to reaffirm our common commitment to 
an end to domestic violence; to reaffirm our common commitment to saying 
to people, you must not raise your hand in violence against members of 
your family in your home; and to reaffirm our commitment to get this 
number everywhere. I want schoolchildren to know that there is a 1-800-
799-SAFE. I want every police officer to know there's a 1-800-799-SAFE. 
I want every mayor to know it. I want every church leader to know it. I 
want it to be emblazoned in the synagogues and all the houses of worship 
in America. I want people to know this number. This is a way that we can 
bring the marvels of modern technology to solve a very old problem in a 
profoundly human way.
    So again, I say, I thank all of you for your efforts. As you know, 
it means a lot to me personally. But it will only count if everyone in 
America who needs to know this number, knows it; and if everybody who 
needs to know it, knows it and feels that they can use it; and then that 
the people on the other end of the line do their job. I'm convinced that 
people on the other end of the line will do their job. [Laughter] And 
I'm convinced those of you who are out there in the fields will continue 
to do your job.
    So I ask you to celebrate today, but remember, there's a lot of 
doctors and teachers and police officers and others that we need to 
gather into this great American family committed to doing away with this 
problem. I think--I will say again, if we can do this, and then we can 
make some progress on the real issue, which is getting every man in 
America to make a personal pledge never to raise a hand in violence in 
the home, this is a problem that America has that can actually be 
solved. And I think all of you are going to hasten the day when we do 
it.
    Thank you very much.
    Q. Mr. President, Can we have a question on this topic, sir?
    The President. Yes.
    Q. Following up on what the speaker said, could you or your family 
or your mother have benefited from a service like this when you were

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growing up, considering the problems that were in your household?
    The President. The honest answer is, I don't know. I think that--I 
think, yes, because at that time in our country's history, most women 
were too embarrassed to talk about it. They didn't know that anybody 
else--they didn't know if anybody else had the problem, and if they did, 
they had no way of finding out who they were. And I think that the sense 
of shame, the ambivalence that ``Maybe somehow this must be partly my 
fault,'' or ``This is my burden to bear,'' that ``This is not anything 
that I can get out of''--I think that's how it would have been most 
helpful.
    I had a--my mother was one of the most remarkably resilient and 
self-reliant people I knew, but I think she came of age at a time when 
women in America simply didn't know that there was any way out of this. 
And I bet you there's still a lot of women out there who just don't know 
that there's any way out of this. So I would think that would have been 
the most important thing that would have helped us.
    Thank you.
    Audience member. May I ask you a question also?
    The President. Sure.
    Audience member. I wonder if you could just take a moment and speak 
to the fact that with the billions of women who are battered, those that 
are the least addressed are those that are deaf, and that there is also 
a TDD line----
    The President. Oh, I'm sorry.
    Audience member. ----and maybe a special thank-you to Senator 
Kennedy for seeing that that happened. [Laughter]
    The President. Thank you. Would you like to say something about it?
    That's the TDD line, and for the last couple of years we've done 
some things to point out what telephone technology is doing to bring 
communication to the deaf. And this TDD line is 1-800-787-3224.
    I thank you for mentioning that.
    Thank you. Thank you all.

Note: The President spoke at 12:38 p.m. in the Roosevelt Room at the 
White House. In his remarks, he referred to Candice Slaughter, domestic 
violence victim, and Ellen Fisher, hotline director.