[Congressional Record Volume 170, Number 36 (Wednesday, February 28, 2024)]
[Senate]
[Pages S1032-S1033]
From the Congressional Record Online through the Government Publishing Office [www.gpo.gov]
Access to Family Building Act
Ms. DUCKWORTH. Madam President, I have been called a lot of names in
my life: ``Tammy,'' ``Lieutenant Colonel,'' ``Senator,'' and a couple
others I shouldn't mention in polite company.
``Mommy,'' though, is, without a doubt, my favorite name. It is the
one my 5-year-old uses when she runs into the house after dance class
and pulls on my sleeve, eager to show me what she learned during her
lesson.
It is the one my 9-year-old says when she announces her latest life
plan. When she was little, she wanted to grow up to be a garbage
collector; now, she is leaning towards being an Army cyber warrior.
My girls are my everything. But they, likely, would have never been
born if I hadn't had access to the basic reproductive rights that
Americans--up until recently--had been depending on for nearly a half
century, because after a decade struggling with infertility after my
service in Iraq, I was only able to get pregnant through the miracle of
IVF.
IVF is the reason I get to experience the chaos and the beauty, the
stress and the joy that is motherhood. IVF is the reason that my
husband and I aren't just Tammy and Bryan but we are ``Mom'' and
``Dad.'' IVF made our family. It made my heart whole. It made my life
full.
But for countless women in Alabama, that desperately sought-after
dream of becoming a mom just became so much harder. Last week, that
State's supreme court ruled that frozen embryos created through IVF
should be considered children under State law--a ruling that paints
women like me and our doctors as criminals and one that throws IVF
access into chaos as countless women and doctors try to figure out
whether they might be criminalized for simply trying to create a
family.
If you are thinking that this makes no sense, you are right. You are
not misunderstanding anything; you are not missing something. It is the
nightmarish blend of hypocrisy and misogyny that you think it is.
The very people who claim to be defending family values are the ones
trying to enact dystopian policies that would prevent Americans from
starting their own families.
This is no longer a hypothetical worst-case scenario. IVF providers
around the State have already paused treatments out of fear that their
doctors and patients could be punished.
Organizations that transport embryos to and from medical facilities
in Alabama have already announced that they will stop doing so, meaning
that would-be parents there won't even be able to start their families
in any other States either.
And now that the first domino has fallen, it seems like it could only
be a matter of time before more hospitals and more organizations make
the same call, before more State courts issue similar rulings, before
more extremist politicians succeed in enacting even more draconian laws
nationwide.
Think about that. Think about what is at stake if State courts simply
can strip away access to IVF. Think about how many would-be moms might
never be able to hear their child's first little gurgle of a laugh.
Think about how many hopeful dads might never be able to play tooth
fairy when his would-be daughter loses her first tooth.
You know, I lived in Alabama for a bit when I was in the Army,
stationed at what is now called Fort Novosel. And I didn't know it at
the time, but infertility would become one of the most heartbreaking
struggles of my life, my miscarriage more painful than any wound I ever
earned on the battlefield.
I also almost lost the opportunity to even try IVF because a doctor
in a well-known Catholic hospital that my VA hospital referred me to
told me I was simply too old for treatment; that at 42, I should just
``go home and enjoy my husband,'' instead, and if it was meant to be, I
would get pregnant.
It was pure luck that I found out that that doctor was lying to me,
that she wasn't basing her advice on medical science but rather on her
personal religious beliefs, nearly costing me my chance to have my two
little girls.
So it is a little personal when a majority male State supreme court
suggests that people like me who became parents with the help of modern
medicine should be in jail cells and not nurseries. And I know I am not
the only one who struggles to understand how elected representatives
who back these kinds of policies can call themselves members of the so-
called ``party of life.''
No, rulings like this one and the bills with the same intent that are
being pushed forward in State legislatures around the country are not
about being pro-life. They are about catering to an extremist base by
exerting even more control over women's bodies, inserting politicians
into some of the most intimate, personal decisions anyone could ever
make.
Look, back when I was going through IVF, three of my five fertilized
eggs were deemed nonviable. If a version of this ruling had been in
place then, I might have been forced to implant each of those three
nonviable embryos. I might have been forced to suffer through three
more miscarriages or else risk me or my doctor being convicted of
manslaughter for discarding nonviable fertilized eggs.
That is the kind of extremism that we are talking about here. That is
the level of cruelty that we are facing. That is the kind of future we
are fighting to prevent, where frozen embryos have more rights than the
women who would carry them.
Let's be clear about what led to this moment, the overturning of Roe
is what made last week's ruling even possible, as it stripped women of
a constitutional right, transferring the power to decide whether or
when to start families from us to politicians in State houses across
the country.
Donald Trump is the one who brags about taking down Roe v. Wade.
Donald Trump is the one who acts as if that is something to be proud
of. So while it may now be convenient for him to claim that he had
nothing to do with what happened in Alabama, we know the truth. IVF is
at risk because of him. He is to blame. Him and every other GOP
official who shamelessly kisses his ring, proving with every word they
say that they care more about protecting his poll numbers than
protecting Americans' freedoms.
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After Roe v. Wade was overturned--actually, even before then, when
the Senate was deciding whether to confirm Brett Kavanaugh and Amy
Coney Barrett to the Supreme Court--I warned that red States would come
for IVF. And now they have. But they aren't going to stop in Alabama.
Mark my words, if we do not act now, it will only get worse.
There are a lot of nuanced tough calls we must make as Senators.
This, simply, isn't one of them. We know what is right, even if
extremist courts would like to rob millions of us of our rights. We
shouldn't need to wait until women and doctors are thrown in jail
before we act to protect them.
That is why today I am begging my colleagues to help me pass my
Access to Family Building Act. A bill that would ensure that every
American's right to become a parent via treatments like IVF is fully
protected, regardless of what State they live in, helping guarantee
that no hopeful parent or doctor in this country can be held criminally
liable for starting or growing a family through IVF.
The reality is, one in four married women have difficulty getting
pregnant or carrying a pregnancy to term. That number doesn't even
include partnerless Americans or other families also trying to have
kids. That is one in four in red States and in blue States, in big
cities and rural towns, in the wealthiest neighborhoods and in the
poorest of ZIP Codes, because infertility doesn't discriminate between
party lines. It doesn't recognize State borders.
No one should feel that someone else's religious beliefs or partisan
slants could rob them of their chance to get pregnant, and no doctor
should have to risk a criminal record just to provide women basic
healthcare.
So to my Republican colleagues, please, think about how many that one
in four equates to in your State. Women willing to go through
expensive, painful medical treatments just for a chance to experience
the smallest, most banal moments of parenthood. Just to have a newborn
to swaddle, a baby whose diaper needs to be changed, a toddler who
needs their shoes to be tied. And if you believe that they have the
right to be called ``Mom'' without also being called a criminal, then
all you have to do to prove it is to let us pass this should-be-obvious
legislation, because in this nightmarish moment, it is nowhere near
enough to send out a vaguely worded tweet claiming you care about
women's rights, despite a voting record to the contrary.
No, this is where the rubber meets the road. If you truly care about
the sanctity of families, if you are genuinely, actually, honestly
interested in protecting IVF, then you need to show it by not blocking
this bill today. It is that simple.