[Congressional Record Volume 169, Number 108 (Wednesday, June 21, 2023)]
[Senate]
[Pages S2174-S2176]
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Loneliness
Mr. MURPHY. Mr. President, I am on the floor tonight to talk about a
topic that rarely, if ever, gets discussed on the Senate floor. I am
here to talk about loneliness.
Every single one of us, over the course of our life, has felt lonely,
maybe really intensely lonely. I certainly have. It is an awful
feeling, right? It creates this pit in your stomach. It creates a
consuming melancholy for many. Sometimes intense loneliness can make
you physically ill. Often, it makes you really agitated and angry,
right? Why is this happening to me?
Now, there are, frankly, a lot of reasons to believe that less
Americans today should feel lonely than ever before. More of us live in
densely populated parts of the country than ever before. Technology now
allows us to connect to friends and family and communities that share
interests more easily than ever before at the press of a button.
But evidence from psychology and sociology tells us that the opposite
is true. In recent decades, we have seen rising levels of both
aloneness, which is defined as having fewer social contacts, and high
levels of loneliness, which is defined as feelings of isolation.
We live closer to each other than ever before. We have technologies
that allow us to connect to people with more ease than ever before, but
people are feeling lonelier. As we look out at a country that seems to
be kind of coming apart a little bit at the seams--I mean, people are
getting shot at just for ringing the wrong doorbell or pulling into the
wrong driveway. Hundreds are dying every day from taking a drug that is
designed to deaden their emotions. Thousands of people engaged in
violent rebellion right here in the Nation's Capital.
We need to be engaged in this search for the reasons why people are
feeling more pessimistic, more frustrated, and angrier than ever
before. And so about 8 or 9 months ago, I started talking about what I
believed to be one of the most important political issues of our time:
loneliness.
Millions of Americans are feeling this way. People report feeling
more intense loneliness than ever before in our lifetime. And it is
irresponsible for policymakers to just keep ignoring it.
Now, there are a lot of explanations for how we got here, but a few
stand out as particularly important for my colleagues to consider.
So it is true that technology does allow us to stay connected to
family and friends and find new communities, but on the whole,
technology has left many Americans, especially young people, feeling
more alone than ever before.
During the height of COVID-19, we learned the hard way that digital
communication cannot replace the value of in-person experience. For
example, studies show that face-to-face interactions create faster
connections to humans and build stronger, more enduring relationships
than anything that you can create online.
Of course, staying in touch electronically is better than losing
touch altogether, but when Facebook likes and Instagram comments
replace in-person experiences, it actually can drive up feelings of
loneliness.
Staring at your screen for 6 hours a day, no matter how many people
you are looking at, it can be a very lonely experience.
And it doesn't stop there, because there are millions of users with
developing minds--children--who spend hours staring at their screens,
scrolling through an endless stream of pictures and videos that have
been carefully curated to create an illusion of perfection, leaving
young people feeling inadequate or wanting.
Constant comparison breeds--in young people especially but in all of
us--and can result in more anxiety than fulfillment. Kids are feeling
really lousy today, and it is not just because they are spending tons
of time on their screens instead of engaging in real in-person
experiences. It is also because the content that they are watching is
dangerous and corrosive and making them feel more alone in the world
because of those feelings of envy.
Now, the second really important factor contributing to this epidemic
of loneliness in America is the erosion of local communities. Now,
connection sometimes happens randomly; but, mostly, it is facilitated
through local institutions: churches, sports teams, civic clubs, labor
unions, business organizations. We derive personal meaning as well from
those institutions, from the communities that we create or join. We get
connection, but we also get meaning.
Those institutions help us construct an identity, a sense of purpose.
It connects us to something bigger than ourselves. But in 2023, you
would be hard-pressed to find a community with the kind of thriving
local institutions of decades ago.
Globalization has erased thousands of healthy, unique downtowns,
where people often met each other at local businesses. And that
outsourcing of commerce online has also diminished local cultures that
facilitate connection, identity, and meaning. Growing up, my identity
was really strongly connected to the town that I lived in, and there
was no shortage of ways that I could easily connect with the people I
lived with.
Back then, we had thriving local newspapers where I could learn
really easily about the people in my town, which made it easier to
create that connection.
Those local newspapers are drying up by the day. We all get our news
from national sources. It was my local grocer who used to slip me a
free slice of American cheese when I would visit on the weekend with my
grandparents that made me feel like I belonged to a community, that I
wasn't alone. But now the local grocer is gone, driven out of business
by superstores or food-delivery drivers.
But even if you still had these local institutions to be a part of,
who has time any longer? A few decades ago, one job could easily
provide a family with a comfortable middle-class life. Today, adults
are forced to maintain two or three jobs to match that same income, or
work 50 or 60 or 70 hours a week. There is no time any longer for
millions of Americans to go to church, to be part of a civic club, or
just hang out with your friends or your neighbors or your family.
And so what are you seeing? Participation in youth sports is
plummeting. That is in part because overextended parents are just too
busy these days to shuttle their kids to games or practices, or they
just can't afford the fees
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or equipment costs. Yes, kids are more interested in online gaming and
their screens, but it is also stressed-out parents who just don't have
time to participate in all those extracurricular activities with their
kids but also don't have time to join the kind of institutions that
used to give them value back when 40 hours a week was enough.
And so here is maybe the most important question: Why should we care?
What are the public policy implications of loneliness? Well, first,
there are health consequences to loneliness. American suicide rates are
rising at an alarming rate, most significantly amongst two key
populations: teenagers and rural men, who are both disproportionately
affected by the changing landscape of American culture and economics.
Researchers at NYU found a direct correlation between teenage girls'
use of Instagram and the corresponding spike in teenage girls' self-
harm rates; and teenage rates of sadness are higher than ever.
For rural white men--one of my favorites--Nobel prize-winning
economist Angus Deaton, he argues that as the white male dominated
``blue-collar aristocracy'' of 50 to 100 years ago has vanished, with
the loss of social and economic status that went with it, those men are
struggling. And this feeling of isolation, specifically amongst that
population, is rising to epidemic levels as well, with a record number
of white men who are struggling in this new world, committing acts of
self-harm.
Surgeon General Vivek Murthy does a great job of connecting the dots
between widespread loneliness and individual health. It is not just
suicide. Last month, he released a detailed advisory with shocking
statistics: Social isolation is associated with a 29-percent increase
in the risk of heart disease and a 32-percent increase in the risk of
stroke. Chronic loneliness can increase the risk of developing dementia
in older people by 50 percent. Do we think it is a coincidence that
life expectancy rates in this country are falling at the same time that
loneliness is spiking?
The second reason that we should care about this epidemic as
policymakers is because this growing isolation of Americans is helping
to fuel a growing culture of resentment and anger.
I mentioned that young woman who was shot because she pulled up to
the wrong driveway; but we see this edginess all over in our culture
today. People are strung out. Violence is more common as a means to
settle disputes, and fringe groups and conspiracy theories are more
popular than ever.
I think loneliness is a big part of the reason why all this is
happening. I mentioned that loneliness is often accompanied by a sense
of anger. Why do I feel like this? Who is to blame? This anger, coupled
with this diminishing availability of positive identities like family,
place, or institution, makes negative identities built on hatred and
distrust all the more attractive.
And so the newly isolated, the lonely, become targets for demagogues
who offer up scapegoats to blame for the decay of these traditional
sources of meaning and identity.
In 2017, America was shocked when a huge White Supremacists rally in
Charlottesville drew thousands, but this shouldn't have been a
surprise. Loneliness drives people to dark, dangerous places. And those
young White men carrying tiki torches are only the tip of a giant
iceberg of isolated, angry Americans whose search for meaning might
lead them to a seething anti-Semitic or racist mob.
Now, the picture I am painting--I get it--is pretty grim, but I am
here to tell you, there are reasons to hope. One of the reasons why I
really believe Congress can get something done attacking isolation and
loneliness and building more social connections is because there is a
growing consensus across the aisle about this set of problems that we
are dealing with and the solutions, which this problem set may be a
little less political than other problems we face in this body.
I think Congress is coming to acknowledge that the consequences of
rapidly advancing technology are not value-neutral. We have seen how
social media has deepened polarization and addicted a generation of
kids to their screens, and in the past few months, we have been
involved in a new conversation about generative AI and machine learning
and how it has the potential to displace millions of jobs and a whole
bunch of basic human functions.
Most Republicans and Democrats agree that we made a big mistake by
sitting on the sidelines during the early days of the internet and the
development most recently of social media.
The good news is that Republicans and Democrats are working together
on this problem. There are a few good pieces of legislation that could
start to hold social media companies accountable who are driving kids
into lives of increasing loneliness and isolation.
Senators Cotton, Schatz, Britt, and I have proposed a bill to set a
minimum age of 13 to use social media, to require parental consent. It
also prohibits social media companies from using these highly
personalized algorithms to drive dangerous, isolationist-inducing
content to kids.
On the issue of AI, Senator Schumer has convened a bipartisan group
that is beginning its work as well, and I am glad to be a part of it.
A second starting point that I really think really think has
bipartisan potential would be to advance policies specifically aimed at
restoring the health of our local communities and local institutions.
In Western Connecticut, in my old congressional district, we have got
the ``Brass City,'' the ``Silver City,'' the ``Hardware City,'' the
``Hat City.'' For a long time in this country, identity, meaning, and
connection were created because we really were proud of the things we
made, of the jobs that existed. But the theory of economic
neoliberalism sent most of those jobs overseas and assumed that better
jobs would replace them. That is not what happened.
So I really believe that industrial policy is part of the solution to
decreasing isolation and loneliness. Why? Because so many people get
meaning and identity from the things that we make and used to make,
from jobs that have meaning and good wages and benefits and pensions
attached to them. That is why the CHIPS and Science Act paved the way
for a new industrial policy to get the Republicans and Democrats to
come together and work on creating more meaning in work which I think
leads to isolation and loneliness.
But, as I said before, that only works if a full-time job provides a
living wage and you have enough time in the evenings and on the
weekends to be able to engage with your friends and your family and
your community.
So I am also hopeful that we can make progress across the aisle
driving up the minimum wage and incentivizing jobs to pay real living
wages.
This week, a conservative group called American Compass released a
report that was underlaid by a really scathing critique of modern
capitalism. The conference was attended by a bunch of our Republican
colleagues here. The report called for policymakers to remake
capitalism so that our economic system works to build strong families,
healthy individuals, and connected communities instead of just viewing
families and individuals as mere pawns of the global market, the grease
that makes the wheels of profit move. This is a really interesting
development. Serious people on the right are starting to rethink the
nature of capitalism to make sure that our economy works for families
and individuals to make us more connected and less lonely. So there is
real possibility that both parties, the right and the left, can come
together to address this crisis of American isolation.
America's epidemic of loneliness is far from terminal. Our retreat
into ourselves is a product of economic, cultural, and political
choices we have made, but it is not too late to chart a new path. I get
it. This is a Congress that has a hard time solving much more
straightforward problems, so tackling a metaphysical crisis like
loneliness might feel like a Herculean task. So, right now, I would
argue that we just need a starting point, an organizing point for some
of these discussions.
So I am working on legislation that would just start by establishing
a national strategy, a national conversation around loneliness and how
to promote connectedness. Every Agency
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should have a role to play in this crisis. So I would argue that we
just need to start with a dedicated office to coordinate a
governmentwide strategy to tackle loneliness and strengthen
communities.
I also think we should have guidelines and best practices for public
entities to engage in trying to connect people. We have guidelines for
nutrition and physical activity and sleep. We should have these
guidelines for social connection.
Finally, we can't really address this crisis adequately if we don't
understand it. So my legislation would also include some small amounts
of funding to support research on the social and health impacts of
widespread loneliness.
I look forward to talking to my colleagues about this legislation. It
doesn't solve the problem, but I think it is time that we start
organizing our work and our thoughts around what is, in many ways, a
foundational problem, which explains a lot of the things that people
are feeling that drives political instability, bad health outcomes, and
just general unhappiness in this country.
Loneliness is one of the few issues that defies traditional political
boundaries, cuts across almost every demographic, from teenage girls
living in cities, to White men living out in rural areas, blue States
to red States, unaffordable cities to left-behind manufacturing towns.
There is a ton of room for us to come together to combat this growing
epidemic of loneliness, and I hope that my colleagues on both sides of
the aisle are eager to be part of this solution.
I yield the floor.
The PRESIDING OFFICER (Ms. Hassan). The Senator from Colorado.