[Congressional Record Volume 165, Number 206 (Thursday, December 19, 2019)]
[Senate]
[Page S7223]
From the Congressional Record Online through the Government Publishing Office [www.gpo.gov]
REMEMBERING WILLIAM EBELTOFT
Mr. TESTER. Mr. President, we have had a fruitful day here today. We
passed a lot of bills. We did it in a bipartisan way. I want to thank
both Leader McConnell and Leader Schumer for their good work, as well
as Chairman Shelby and Ranking Member Leahy for their good work on
these bills.
Today, I am going to do something that I have never done before. I am
going to read an obituary about a man I don't believe I have ever met,
even though I was in the Veterans' Home of Columbia Falls while he was
there. This obituary was passed on to me by my wife, who got it from a
friend. It is incredibly powerful because, quite frankly, it is about
one man, but it is actually about a generation of men and women who
served in Vietnam.
This guy's name was William Ebeltoft. The obituary goes like this:
``Not everyone who lost his life in Vietnam died there.''
The saying is true for CW2 William C. Ebeltoft. He died on
December 15, 2019 at the Veteran's Home in Columbia Falls,
Montana. He died 50 years after he lost, in Vietnam, all that
underpinned his life. He was 73 years old.
Everyone called him ``Bill.'' He was loved by the nursing
staff who cared for him. He was loved by the fellow veterans
with whom he lived; those he helped when he was able and
entertained with funny German slang and a stint at the piano
when he could. He was a virtuoso when playing ``Waltzing
Matilda.''
His small family loved him dearly. He was preceded in death
by his parents, Paul and Mary Ebeltoft of Dickinson, North
Dakota, whose devotion and care for their war-damaged boy was
strong and unfailing. He is survived by his brother, Paul
Ebeltoft, and the one he loved as the sister he never had,
Paul's wife, Gail. . . . It is difficult to write about Bill.
He lived three lives: before, during and after Vietnam.
Before Vietnam, Bill was a handsome man, who wore clothing
well; a man with white, straight teeth that showed in his
ready smile. A state champion trap shooter, a low handicap
golfer, a 218-average bowler, a man of quick, earthy wit,
with a fondness for children, old men, hunting, fast cars,
and a cold Schlitz. He told jokes well.
During Vietnam, he lived with horrors of which he would
only seldom speak. Slow Motion Four, Bill's personal call
sign, logged thousands of helicopter flight hours performing
Forward Support Base resupply landings, medical evacuations,
exfils and gun ship runs. We know of him there mostly through
medals for valor he received, and these were many. . . .
While attempting to resupply B Company, [Warrant Officer]
Ebeltoft's co-pilot became wounded. Realizing the importance
of the mission WO Ebeltoft elected to attempt completion of
the mission. Due to his superior knowledge of the aircraft,
the helicopter was kept under control during the period in
which the pilot was wounded and the ship was under fire.
Remaining under attack from automatic weapons fire, the
supply mission was successfully completed. While unloading
the supplies, WO Ebeltoft received word that there were five
emergency medical evacuation cases located 200 meters to his
rear. WO Ebeltoft re-positioned his helicopter and picked up
the wounded personnel. While evacuating the wounded, the
commanding officer of Company B was injured. WO Ebeltoft
again maneuvered his aircraft to enable evacuation of the
injured officer. WO Ebeltoft then proceeded to evacuate all
injured personnel by the fastest possible means. Upon
completion, examination of the aircraft revealed that the
aircraft had sustained nine enemy .30 caliber hits.
Bill got the medal, of course, but he would have been the
last to say anything about it. The citation shows the type of
man that he, and many of his brothers-in-arms in Vietnam
were; and still are today, albeit battered hard and unfairly
by the cruel winds of the time in which they fought.
After being discharged as a decorated hero, Bill had a
rough re-entry into civilian life. It is not necessary to
recount Bill's portion of what is an all-too-common story for
wartime veterans, particularly those of the Vietnam era. It
may be sufficient to say that after a run at business, a
marriage and while grappling daily with his demons, his
mental faculties escaped him. Bill became a resident of the
Veteran's Home in Columbia Falls, Montana in 1994. He lived
there for the next 26 years.
At the Home, the patina of his memory covered life's
sorrows, and it was a blessing. Bill was happy there, living
a life that was a strange mixture of hunting stories, pickup
trucks and memories of some of his better times with women,
friends and the outdoor life. Bill denied that anyone he
loved had died; could not understand why anyone would fill
with gas at four bucks a gallon when ``Johnny's Standard
sells it for 27 cents;'' and still ``drove'' his 1968 Dodge
Charger. He was unfailingly courteous. His largest concerns
were making his smoke breaks and finding his wallet (a search
of 26 years.)
In the past year, Bill's shaky grip on physical health also
slipped through his fingers. Yet, despite this, what we loved
in him remained, if only sometimes as a shadow. Even after
his serious decline, suffering fractures because of falls,
Bill would tell the staff that he was ``just fine'' and not
to worry about him. Thin, hunched over, propelling himself
with one foot, he would wheel himself into the room of a bed-
ridden veteran and sit there, next to the bed, unspeaking.
The nursing staff was certain that Bill thought that the man
in bed was lonely and needed company.
Bill was always a proud man, remembering himself as he was
in 1969, not as he became. Who are we to suggest differently?
His was not a life that many would wish for, but in some
ways, Bill was a lucky man. He was surrounded to the end by
staff who enjoyed and respected him. He had a chance to be
helpful to others who were doing less well than he. And the
passing of the seasons never diminished his plans for another
elk hunt or to ``see that beautiful girl again this
weekend.''
When a small slice of reality penetrated his pleasant
confusion, Bill struggled to understand why he was where he
was. Prematurely aged, his worldly goods in a small dresser,
not knowing who the President might be or remembering why he
should care, Bill's losses were greater than most of us could
endure. Yet, to those who love him, his brother and his
brother's wife, and their sons, he will always be a brave,
accomplished man, more generous than was wise, more trusting
than was safe.
It is not possible to wrap your arms around a loved one who
leaves. But it is possible to wrap your heart around a
memory. Bill's will be well taken care of.
I yield the floor.
The PRESIDING OFFICER. The Senator from Ohio.
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