[Congressional Record Volume 162, Number 140 (Thursday, September 15, 2016)]
[Senate]
[Pages S5811-S5812]
From the Congressional Record Online through the Government Publishing Office [www.gpo.gov]
REMEMBERING ROBERT J. DUNFEY, SR.
Mr. LEAHY. Madam President, for every pivotal moment in history,
behind the faces of the political leaders, the negotiators, the
protestors and the agreement-seekers, there are stalwart citizens,
seeking to find the common ground for the common good. Last month, one
such advocate in the march
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for peace in Ireland, Robert J. Dunfey, Sr., passed away.
Bob Dunfey was a successful businessman, the founder of what today we
call the Omni Hotel chain, who gave back to his community, his state,
his country and his world. A public servant who spent decades advancing
peace-building efforts in his ancestral home of Ireland, Mr. Dunfey was
widely regarded by leaders of all walks in Ireland. He worked to
support initiatives in Northern Ireland, as well as those in Ireland. A
trusted partner, Bob Dunfey sought neither credit nor the spotlight; he
worked behind the scenes, a true hallmark of public service.
Marcelle and I were touched when Bob welcomed us and our family into
his home in Ballyferriter, Ireland. He leaves behind family and friends
in his native New England, across the country and around the world. His
is a friendship I will miss.
I ask unanimous consent that the full obituary for Robert Dunfey,
Sr., be printed in the Record.
There being no objection, the material was ordered to be printed in
the Record, as follows:
Obituary for Robert J. Dunfey Sr., Co-Founder, Omni-Dunfey Hotels
International and Peace-Builder, Northern Ireland
Robert John `Bob' Dunfey, Sr. of Portsmouth, NH and
formerly of Cape Elizabeth, ME, died peacefully on Tuesday,
August 23, 2016, surrounded by loving family including his
devoted wife, Jeanette Marston Dunfey who tirelessly cared
for him during his long and valiant struggle against
Parkinson's Disease.
Bob was born February 9, 1928 in Lowell, MA, the seventh of
twelve children of Catherine and LeRoy Dunfey. He was
educated at St. Patrick's School and Keith Academy, both in
Lowell.
He is survived by former wife Shirley (Corey) Dunfey, and
five children: Robert Dunfey, Jr. Cape Elizabeth, ME; Roy and
Karen Dunfey, Portland, ME; Eileen Dunfey and Michael
Pulsifer, Cape Elizabeth, ME; Brian Dunfey, South Berwick,
ME; Maryanne Dunfey, North Conway, NH; 10 grandchildren and 3
great-grandchildren.
He is also survived by 4 of his 11 siblings: Jack and his
wife Lisa of Boston; Eileen Robinson of Bradenton, FL; Jerry
and his wife Nadine Hack of Lutry, Switzerland; Eleanor
Dunfey and her husband Jim Freiburger of Exeter, NH; many
dear cousins in Ballyferriter, Co. Kerry, Ireland; and his
wife Jeanette's devoted Marston family.
He was pre-deceased by his parents Catherine and LeRoy and
7 Dunfey siblings: Roy, Paul, Catherine, `Kay,' Mary, William
`Bud,' and Richard, `Dick,' and Walter.
Rarely in the 88 years of Bob Dunfey's life was he in or
did he seek the limelight, but a look behind the scenes in
meetings, conversations, and telephone calls would reveal
Bob's signature contributions. The seventh child in a family
of 12 knew from the beginning that his life would be that of
bridge builder, connector, supporter of worthy causes.
Too young to enlist in WWII with his older brothers, he
became the indispensable ``right hand'' for his father and
role model for his younger siblings by doing the often
thankless hard work--behind the counter in the family's
luncheonette and variety store in Lowell, MA's `ACRE,' the
home of so many first generation Irish and other immigrants.
To this day, his closest friend and partner, brother Jack,
credits Bob's energy and hard work as the distinct factor
that grew the family business from one small business to
fried clam stands at Hampton Beach then on to restaurants,
motels and hotels throughout New England, an evolution which
led to the purchase of Boston's famous Parker House in 1968
and later became Omni Hotels International.
Bob's work in the business community had a significant
impact on the Maine economy. In 1966 Bob successfully led the
controversial campaign to allow restaurants, lounges and
hotels to sell alcoholic beverages on Sunday which was
prohibited by law. Another major contribution was the
development of the Maine Mall.
During Bobby Kennedy's 1968 campaign for President, Bobby
would personally call Bob each Sunday to hear how the
campaign was going in Maine. In 1980, on behalf of Maine
Governor Brennan, Bob asked Federal Judge George Mitchell to
fill the senate seat of Edmund Muskie, newly appointed
Secretary of State by President Carter. Mitchell accepted.
As an active father he helped raise his family in Cape
Elizabeth. His favorite places were Prout's Neck walking the
beach and the bird walk, boating around Casco Bay and riding
his bike along the New England Coast. In 1965, he built a ski
chalet in North Conway where his family and grandchildren
spent winter weekends skiing Cranmore Mountain and
snowmobiling, He also arranged many family ski trips to Vail
at Thanksgiving.
But his pride and joy was the house he had built in
Ballyferriter, Ireland with the most amazing view of ocean
and cliffs. His purpose was to have new generations of family
reconnect with Irish relatives. His school master and
archeologist cousin, Denis O'Connor helped Bob select the
perfect Irish name: Feorann: ``edge of the sea, a verdant
bank on a mountainside . . .'' Over 35 years, Bob expanded
that word's meaning to include: a bit of heaven to be shared
with all! He generously opened his Irish home to family,
countless friends--even friends of friends. He introduced
Senators George Mitchell, Ted Kennedy, Patrick Leahy, and
Chris Dodd to the expansive beauty and warm hospitality of
the Dingle Peninsula. Bob believed as every Kerryman does,
that there are only two kingdoms: The Kingdom of God and The
Kingdom of Kerry; ``One is of this world and one is out of
this world!''
Robert J. `Bob' Dunfey, Sr. was a trustee of the University
of Maine System; a director of the American Ireland Funds;
founder and honorary director of the Susan L. Curtis
Foundation, which operates a 50-acre summer camp for Maine's
underprivileged children. Bob was a founding director of the
Maine Community Foundation. Bob served on the Spurwink Board
of Trustees for 14 years, and was honored as the inaugural
Humanitarian of the Year in 1987.
He was founding treasurer and director of New England
Circle/Global Citizens Circle, a 40-year old non-profit forum
that brings leaders and activists together for civil dialogue
on critical issues that lead to constructive change in our
local and global communities. Bob worked tirelessly to
support initiatives in Northern Ireland and cultural
preservation projects in the South of Ireland. For his
extraordinary efforts over 40 years on the Isle of Ireland,
he was honored with several major awards by all the Parties
to the Peace Process as a trusted behind the scenes partner
for all who were interested in moving beyond ``The
Troubles.''
He was an advisor for the White House Conference for Trade
and Investment in Northern Ireland. He participated with Sen.
George Mitchell, President Clinton's Special Envoy for
Economic Initiatives for Northern Ireland, on the Senator's
first tour of Belfast, Derry, and Border Towns.
Bob and his brother, Jack Dunfey, traveled to Oslo with
John Hume and David Trimble and their families when the two
Northern Ireland leaders were awarded the Nobel Peace Prize
in 1998.
Perhaps it is in the reflections of others that we see the
worth of a life well lived. Julia Brown, Bob's granddaughter,
offers such a reflection and two dear friends warmly affirm
her tribute: ``Our Papa leaves an amazing legacy as a
humanitarian and activist. He touched so many lives and made
such a memorable impact in this world. He will be immensely
missed by his loving family and wide circle of friends.'' One
of those dear and longtime friends, Jackie Redpath, Belfast
Shankill Community Centre, who worked so closely alongside
Bob, shares that sentiment: ``Bob was a `great man'. In
Ireland, in Belfast, on the Shankill Falls, he straddled
`both sides' & both extremes & I am forever grateful for his,
and your family's, bringing loyalism/unionism' in from the
cold and giving us a seat `at the top table' in the United
States. People are alive today, who would not otherwise be,
on account of this. Bob was strong, sincere, determined,
wise, sensitive and great damn fun. He was very kind to me
and I will miss him.
It was his beloved Maine, however, that Bob served first
and foremost, and the Susan Curtis Foundation expresses best,
all that Bob Dunfey means to them: ``It may comfort you to
know that this summer, nearly 500 youth learned about
themselves and who they can be, while developing the
character, skills and life lessons they need to reach their
dreams. Over 16,000 youth have had that same experience since
Camp Susan Curtis opened its doors in 1974. None of this
would have happened without Bob. He lives on in the thousands
of Maine youth (and former Maine youth--now adults!) who are
succeeding and thriving in part because they mattered at Camp
Susan Curtis. He will forever be a part of us and we will
miss him.''
A celebration of Bob's life will be held at St. John's
Episcopal Church, 100 Chapel Street, Portsmouth, NH at 11
A.M. Saturday, September 10, 2016. Honoring Bob's wish, his
ashes will be interred in the family's ancestral grave in
Ballyferriter, Ireland alongside his sister, Mary; brother,
Walter; and nephew, Philip, at a time convenient to the
family. The family requests that, in lieu of flowers, friends
consider a contribution in Bob's memory to the Susan Curtis
Foundation 1321 Washington Ave # 104, Portland, ME 04103.
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