[Congressional Record Volume 160, Number 93 (Monday, June 16, 2014)]
[Senate]
[Pages S3676-S3677]
From the Congressional Record Online through the Government Publishing Office [www.gpo.gov]
GUN VIOLENCE
Mr. MURPHY. Mr. President, I hope the Presiding Officer and my
colleagues had a great Father's Day this past Sunday. I had maybe the
best Father's Day you can imagine because I got to spend part of it
with my two sons and my father. We all went out to dinner with my wife,
and it was a really special day.
I come to the floor with both a light and heavy heart, light because
I got to experience Father's Day in a way I wish thousands of other
people across the country could experience it. The statistics of the
number of people who are killed by guns every year is pretty stunning.
There are tens of thousands of people all across this country who are
losing their fathers and sons, in part because the Senate doesn't do
anything to try to stem the scourge of gun violence across the country.
As the Presiding Officer knows, I try to come to the floor every week
for about 10 minutes or so to try and give voice to the victims of gun
violence.
Today, 24 hours having passed Father's Day, maybe we can talk a
little bit about those who have lost their fathers and their sons--
little boys such as Logan Soldo.
Logan is about to turn 1. He certainly doesn't know what happened to
his father Igor, but when he is old enough, unfortunately he will hear
a pretty horrific story. His father--having fled war-torn Bosnia as a
13-year-old to settle in the United States--was killed in a shooting at
a Walmart, which got a lot of attention about a week or so ago.
Jared and Amanda Miller--fairly well-known radicals in the Las Vegas
area--walked into a Walmart and shot Igor Soldo, a police officer,
while he was eating at a restaurant.
People talked about Igor and his journey. As I mentioned, he came
here from the Balkans when he was 13 years old and graduated from
Southeast High School in Lincoln, NE. Following high school, he studied
criminal justice at the University of Nebraska-Lincoln and worked part
time as a corrections officer for 3 years in Lincoln where he met his
wife Andrea. The couple were married in 2009. They were planning on
celebrating their son's first birthday. His birthday will be on July 7.
They
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were going to return from Las Vegas to Lincoln to celebrate it with
friends and family, but instead Igor's family ventured and journeyed
from Lincoln to Las Vegas to bid farewell to their son, who was a
police officer killed in this episode of horrific violence which killed
two others and eventually also led to the death of the two shooters.
One of his fellow officers, who was one of Igor's close buddies, told
the story at his funeral about how close Igor was to his son. He said,
through tears, to the crowd:
I started getting pictures of Igor and Logan. I would see
him with Logan over at the house and it was clear . . . our
once epic romance was being replaced.
Logan Soldo will never know his dad, but there are thousands who lose
their sons every year.
Over the weekend some of my colleagues might have had a chance to
read an op-ed in the Washington Post written by Mark Barden and David
Wheeler. Mark and David lost their sons, Daniel and Ben, in Sandy Hook.
They talked about what Father's Day has become. They said:
We know Father's Day is meant to be a day when fathers sit
back on their couches, watch sports and take it easy. But
this Father's Day, we ask you to do one thing differently.
Look at your children, your beautiful, growing, pesky
children who bring you so much joy and sometimes cause you so
much heartache, and ask yourself--really ask yourself--this:
Am I doing everything I can to keep them safe? Because the
answer to that question, if we all answer honestly, clearly
is no.
Of course, that is the answer here in the Senate because we have
witnessed over 70 school shootings since Sandy Hook. There were 35
school shootings this year alone, and we are not even halfway through
the year. There are 31,000 people a year--2,600 people a month, 86
people a day--who are killed by guns, and we do nothing.
We tried to pass a pretty simple bill that would expand the number of
sales that would be subjected to a background check--supported by 80
percent of the American public--on the floor of this Senate, but
because of a Republican filibuster, we could not get it to a final
vote. The numbers are clearly not moving people, so hopefully the
stories will, stories such as that of one particular father who has
become the face, in many ways, of the Sandy Hook tragedy, Neil Heslin.
Many people have heard Mr. Heslin talk because he probably talks in
the most poignant, open, soul-baring terms of any of the parents.
Twenty-four hours removed from Father's Day--which many of us got to
spend with our dads and our kids--I will leave you with the words from
Neil Heslin's testimony before the Senate Judiciary Committee:
On December 14, Jesse got up and got ready for school. He
was always excited to go to school. I remember on that day we
stopped by Misty Vale Deli. It's funny the things you
remember. I remember the hug he gave me when I dropped him
off. He just held me, and he rubbed my back. I can still feel
that hug.
And Jesse said, ``It's going to be alright. Everything's
going to be okay, Dad.'' Looking back it makes me wonder.
What did he know? Did he have some idea about what was going
to happen? But at the time I didn't think much of it. He was
just being sweet.
He was always being sweet like that. He was the kind of kid
who used to leave me voice messages where he'd sing me happy
birthday even if it wasn't my birthday. I'd ask him about it,
and he'd say, ``I just wanted to make you feel happy.'' Half
the time I felt like he was the parent and I was his son.
Taking a break from Neil's testimony for a second, this was Neil's
only family. He was separated from his wife. Neil has been unemployed,
bopping between different housing situations. His entire family--his
entire life--was his son Jesse.
Neil went on to say:
Jesse just had this idea that you never leave people hurt.
If you can help somebody, you do it. If you can make somebody
feel better, you do it. If you can leave somebody a little
better off, you do it.
They tell me that's how he died.
When he heard the shooting--at Sandy Hook Elementary School
that day--he didn't run and hide. He started yelling. People
disagree on the last thing he said. One person who was there
said he yelled ``run.'' Another person said he told everybody
to ``run now.''
What I know is that Jesse wasn't shot in the back. He took
two bullets. The first one grazed off the side of his head,
but that didn't stop him from yelling. The other hit him in
the forehead. Both bullets were fired from the front.
I hate to say it but even when you know your community has
been hit, you hope and pray it wasn't your boy. They had us
all to go to a fire station to wait and see if our kids would
make it out of the school. By 3:30, maybe 4 o'clock, they
told us there were no more survivors. I should have realized.
They'd basically told me my son was dead, but I waited. I
told the people what to look for, what he'd been wearing that
day. He had this striped shirt and Carhartt jacket, and these
pants that fit him in September, but then he hit a growth
spurt. I gave the description and I waited some more. I
waited and I hoped, until 1:30 in the morning. That's when
they told me he wasn't coming.
Breaking away from his testimony again for a second, I was at that
fire house, and I will never forget the scene of Neil Heslin sitting by
himself hour after hour.
Returning to his testimony, he concludes by saying:
Before he died, Jesse and I used to talk about maybe coming
to Washington some day. He wanted to go to the Washington
Monument. When he talked about it last year, Jesse asked if
we could come and meet the President.
I said earlier that I can be a little cynical about
politicians. But Jesse believed in you.
This is Neil talking to us.
He learned about you in school and he believed in you. I
want to believe in you, too. I know you can't give me Jesse
back. Believe me, if I thought you could I'd be asking you
for that. But I want to believe that you will think about
what I told you here today. I want to believe you'll think
about it and then you'll do something about it, whatever you
can do to make sure no other father has to see what I've
seen.
Mr. President, I yield the floor, and I note the absence of a quorum.
The PRESIDING OFFICER. The clerk will call the roll.
The bill clerk proceeded to call the roll.
Mr. McCAIN. Mr. President, I ask unanimous consent that the order for
the quorum call be rescinded.
The PRESIDING OFFICER. Without objection, it is so ordered.
Mr. McCAIN. Mr. President, I ask to be recognized in morning
business.
The PRESIDING OFFICER. The Senator from Arizona.
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