[Congressional Record Volume 152, Number 55 (Tuesday, May 9, 2006)]
[House]
[Page H2305]
From the Congressional Record Online through the Government Publishing Office [www.gpo.gov]
JOB DESCRIPTION OF MOTHERS
Mr. EMANUEL. Mr. Speaker, I ask permission to speak out of order.
The SPEAKER pro tempore. Without objection, the gentleman from
Illinois (Mr. Emanuel) is recognized for 5 minutes.
Mr. EMANUEL. Mr. Speaker, with Mother's Day coming up, I had come
across a document on the Internet that was sent around to a number of
women, including some in my office. In honor of all the mothers across
America, I would like to read this, if I could.
A woman, renewing her driver's license at the county clerk's office,
was asked by the woman recorder to state her occupation.
She hesitated, uncertain how to classify herself. ``What I mean is,''
explained the clerk, ``do you have a job or are you just a . . . ?''
``Of course I have a job,'' snapped the woman.
``I'm a Mom.''
``We don't list `Mom' as an occupation, `housewife' covers it,'' said
the recorder emphatically.
I forgot all about her story until one day I found myself in the same
situation, this time at our own town hall. The clerk was obviously a
career woman, poised, efficient and possessed of a high sounding title
like, ``Official Interrogator'' or ``Town Registrar.''
``What is your occupation?'' she probed.
What made me say it? I do not know. The words simply popped out.
``I'm a Research Associate in the field of Child Development and
Human Relations.''
The clerk paused, ball-point pen frozen in midair and looked up as
though she had not heard right. I repeated the title, slowly
emphasizing the most significant words. Then I stared with wonder as my
pronouncement was written in bold, black ink on the official
questionnaire.
``Might I ask,'' said the clerk with new interest, ``just what you do
in your field?''
Coolly, without any trace of fluster in my voice, I heard myself
reply, ``I have a continuing program of research, (what mother doesn't)
in the laboratory and in the field (normally I would have said indoors
and out).
``I'm working for my Master's, (the whole darned family) and already
have four credits (all daughters). Of course, the job is one of the
most demanding in the humanities, (any mother care to disagree?) and I
often work 14 hours a day (24 is more like it). But the job is more
challenging than most run-of-the-mill careers and the rewards are more
of a satisfaction, rather than just money.''
There was an increasing note of respect in the clerk's voice as she
completed the form, stood up and personally ushered me to the door.
As I drove into our driveway, buoyed up by my glamorous new career, I
was greeted by my lab assistants, ages 13, 7, and 3. Upstairs I could
hear our new experimental model (a 6-month-old baby) in the child
development program, testing out a new vocal pattern. I felt I had
scored a beat on bureaucracy. And I had gone on the official records as
someone more distinguished and indispensable to mankind than ``just
another Mom.''
Motherhood. What a glorious career, especially when there's a title
on the door.
Does this make grandmothers ``Senior Research Associates in the Field
of Child Development and Human Relations,'' and great-grandmothers
``Executive Senior Research Associates''? I think so. I also think it
makes aunts ``Associate Research Assistants.''
Please send this on to another mom, grandmother, aunt and any friends
you know.
To all those mothers who will be celebrating Mother's Day, who have
the most important profession, the most satisfying profession and
probably the only title that says in three words what all of us rely
on, to those mothers out there, thank you for what you do every day
making sure our children have a home, a place of warmth, and a place of
great values in honor of all mothers on Mother's Day.
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