[Congressional Record Volume 149, Number 117 (Friday, August 1, 2003)]
[Senate]
[Page S10879]
From the Congressional Record Online through the Government Publishing Office [www.gpo.gov]
TRIBUTE TO ROBERT S. WINER
Mr. LAUTENBERG. Mr. President, I rise to express a personal note of
grief and fond remembrance as I pay tribute to one of my dearest
friends, Bob Winer, who passed away on July 18.
Bob was born in Brooklyn, NY, moved to New Jersey, and joined the
Navy when he was 17 and proudly served in the Pacific during World War
II.
After the war, he joined his two brothers in a clothing manufacturing
business begun by their father many years earlier. The company, Winer
Industries, was located in Paterson, NJ, where I was born.
I first met Bob when I called upon him to use my company--ADP--to
handle his payroll and other data processing needs. He became a client
and a good friend almost immediately; our friendship grew and grew over
the next 40 years.
Bob truly was larger than life. We shared common interests like
skiing, boating, and feasting. Bob had a zest for living that few could
match. He traveled extensively. He enjoyed spear-fishing, often
surrounded by sharks and barracuda, and taught his children and his
friends to be comfortable in that environment. He owned airplanes and
was a great pilot with thousands of hours to his credit, and I spent
many hours as his co-pilot. He suggested that I take flying lessons,
asking me what I might do if he suddenly ``slumped over the wheel.'' My
response was that if that were to happen, I would slump over the wheel,
too! He seemed indestructible.
The best thing about Bob's zeal for living was his insistence on
sharing it with lots of family and friends. He let his 8-year-old
nephew land a twin-engine plane--at night. That might strike some
people as foolhardy but the thing about Bob was that he had so much
confidence, so much skill, and so much courage, he inspired it in
others.
Bob did well in life. He lived in Morristown, NJ, and had homes in
Nantucket, Vermont, and Florida, and lots of friends in many places.
Yet, he was about as unassuming as someone can be.
But more important, Bob did so much good in life, too. When Bob's
brother and sister-in-law were killed in a plane crash, Bob and his
wonderful wife Elaine, with their three daughters--Trisha, Laurie, and
Jill--helped raise his brother's children, Jeannie, Ken, and Larry, as
their own.
I think we grow or shrink in direct proportion to our generosity. Bob
was the most generous person I have ever met and everyone who knew him
would say that it was apparent in everything he did. It was a rare
privilege to know him and I was proud to call him my friend.
Bob was devoted to his family and friends, his business and
community, and our country. He was a veteran, a philanthropist, and an
adventurer. Above all, he was an extraordinary human being.
In 1899, Robert Ingerson, a known essayist who lost a brother, wrote
these words which I think provide a fitting tribute to Bob, who was
like a brother to me:
He added to the sum of human joy; and were everyone to whom
he did some loving service to bring a blossom to his grave,
he would sleep tonight beneath a wilderness of flowers.
Few people on this earth have done more than Bob Winer to ``add to
the sum of human joy.'' So, while we grieve his death and hold him and
his family in our prayers, it's also appropriate to celebrate his life,
a life so richly lived.
He will be sorely missed by family and friends, and in my life, a
tear will fall every time I think of him.
I yield the floor.
The PRESIDING OFFICER. The Senator from Hawaii.
Mr. AKAKA. Mr. President, I ask unanimous consent that I be permitted
to speak for up to 30 minutes in morning business.
The PRESIDING OFFICER. Without objection, it is so ordered.
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