[Congressional Record Volume 143, Number 70 (Friday, May 23, 1997)]
[Senate]
[Pages S5088-S5089]
From the Congressional Record Online through the Government Publishing Office [www.gpo.gov]
FALLEN HEROS
Mr. BYRD. Mr. President, as the traditional start of the summer
outdoor season approaches, advertisers are busily reminding us that we
have only three days to ready our big yards for summer, or that hooray,
we have an extra day to spend on outdoor chores--using their newest
tools, gadgets, and products, of course. Well, Mr. President, most of
us will enjoy an extra day this weekend. That is cause for celebration.
However, the purpose is to celebrate our fallen heros, not to celebrate
another opportunity to spend money.
Memorial Day is set aside to remember the final sacrifice made by
many brave men and women in the defense of our Nation and our ideals of
liberty and justice. Though in many cases, years have passed since they
laid down their lives for us, the memory of these fallen heros should
not fade from our hearts, drowned out by the din of advertising or
buried beneath a tide of sales circulars. I urge my colleagues, and the
American public, to pause for a moment this weekend, that they fly
their flags, pause to set aside their dirt-covered gloves, to brush the
grass clippings from their pants legs, and to sit for a moment in the
sun-dappled shade of an ancient tree, and thank these men and women who
have--to paraphrase the preamble to our mighty Constitution--provided
for the common defense, promoted the general welfare, and secured the
blessings of liberty to ourselves and our posterity.
In the United States, our fallen soldiers have been honored and
remembered on Memorial Day since the time of the Civil War. That tragic
conflict spawned so many spontaneous gestures of remembrance in our
country that the location and the date of the first Memorial Day or
Decoration Day--Decoration Day, as it was called--Ceremony is disputed.
One of the most moving and famous of the early Memorial Day tributes
occurred in Columbus, Mississippi. On April 26, 1866, the women of
Columbus gathered to decorate the graves of their husbands, brothers,
lovers and friends who had been buried four years earlier after the
Battle of Shiloh in a plot now known as Friendship Cemetery. The plot
contained the remains of 1500 confederate soldiers, but it also was the
final resting place for 100 fallen federal troops.
The time was reconstruction. In 1866, much of the South was under
military occupation and was impoverished. Resentment and hatred still
ran high on both sides of the Mason Dixon line.
But, to these war-weary women, the time for hostilities was over.
After scattering flowers on the graves of their own men, they decorated
the graves of the union men with magnolia blossoms.
But, like so many of our religious and secular days of remembrance,
the origin and purpose of Memorial Day have become at least partially
obscured by the more immediate pleasures of a day off, the flash and
danger of a car race or the anticipation of good food at a picnic.
Let me quote from a book, The Good War, an oral history of World War
II by Studs Terkel. In 1982, a woman of thirty told Terkel: ``I can't
relate to World War II. It's in schoolbook texts, that's all. Battles
that were won, battles that were lost. Or costume dramas you see on TV.
It's just a story in the past. It's so distant, so abstract. I don't
get myself up in a bunch about it.''
Without a continued awareness of the real significance of this
national day of remembrance, we may eventually also largely forget the
difficult and invaluable lessons of the human cost and the ultimate
tragedy of all warfare. Particularly today, when armed conflicts such
as Desert Storm may seem glamorous, even entertaining and almost
antiseptic in their efficiency, we must not forget as a nation that war
always means death, destruction, broken homes, broken families, twisted
and maimed bodies and devastation.
While this Nation must never shrink from armed conflict if that is
the course we must take to protect our freedoms, we must also never
forget nor minimize the horror of war, else we may someday risk its
grisly consequences too easily.
So it is my hope, that on this coming Memorial Day, all Americans
will take a few moments to remember the brave men and women who have
fought and died to preserve this great nation and its principles of
liberty and freedom. The personal suffering and sacrifice endured by
our fallen soldiers and their families for the sake of our country must
not go without a measure of recognition by each of us on this most
solemn of days. These were real people, not just statistics in a
history book or names chiseled on stone. These were young men and women
with sisters, brothers, mothers, fathers, hopes, dreams, aspirations
and fears just like the rest of us. At some future time, God forbid,
the names of our own sons, daughters and grandchildren could very well
be among those that are read at a ceremony honoring our fallen
soldiers.
Nothing confronts us with our common humanity--with our shared
responsibilities as citizens and with a renewed appreciation for the
worth of our sacred and fragile freedoms like a contemplation of our
national conflicts, and the sorrow, heroism, death and sacrifice that
has accompanied each of them.
This weekend thousands of American families will visit cemeteries
around the nation to remember husbands,
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wives, sons, daughters, grandfathers, great grandfathers and friends
who paid the ultimate price in this nation's conflict. All of us need
to take time to show our solidarity with their grief and their
sacrifice; to fly the flags at our homes, schools, cemeteries and
public places; to walk the eerie quiet of Antietam or Bull Run; visit
the local veterans' cemeteries; lay some flowers on the tomb of a
fallen soldier; spend a quiet moment at the monuments to our honored
war dead; take our children in tow and teach them about all the brave
young men and women who have paid so dearly in the past so that future
generations can be free; and through that conscious effort and those
small individual acts put a very human face on Memorial Day. Remember,
spontaneous acts of remembrance such as these were what spawned
Memorial Day in the first place. And they will always be the most
meaningful tributes of all.
In Flanders fields the poppies blow
Between the crosses, row on row,
That mark our place; and in the sky
The larks, still bravely singing, fly
Scarce heard amid the guns below.
We are the Dead. Short days ago
We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow,
Loved and were loved, and now we lie
In Flanders fields.
Take up our quarrel with the foe:
To you from failing hands we throw
The torch; be yours to hold it high.
If ye break faith with us who die
We shall not sleep, though poppies grow
In Flanders fields.
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